Relationship counselling is difficult. Often couples are only seeking counselling as a last resort before splitting up, and they present in a very distressed and sometimes hostile state. Other couples seek counselling well before this stage. Some have no intention of separating but wish to clarify or overcome specific difficulties they are having.

At DSA Psychologists, we have experienced psychologists used to assisting all kinds of relationship issues. Usually we prefer both people to attend but relationship problems can and are often discussed with only one of the partners present.

Relationship counselling is offered to all types of couples who are trying to resolve difficulties.

Common issues experienced by couples who seek relationship counselling include:

• Poor communication
• Poor problem solving skills
• Developing understanding and tolerance of different perspectives and roles
• Lacking of quality time and pleasant shared experiences
• Needing renewed energy within the relationship
• Feeling that partner support is not sufficient
• Different partner and relationship expectations
• Sexual differences including satisfaction, libido and frequency/quality differences

Couples can work with qualified DSA Psychologists to successfully work through these issues.

Couples separating with unresolved custody and settlement issues may also be seen for mediation counselling.